Dr Syeda

1. SELF LOVE
   Once a woman gets to love herself, an inner glow emanates from within and is reflected on her smile, eyes, facial expression, mannerisms and tone
2. FORGIVENESS
   Bitterness darkens the soul but forgiveness makes her shine. She has refused to give power to those who hurt her in the past
3. AWARENESS OF HER PURPOSE
   Once she knows her reason for existence, she radiates. Something about a woman knowing she is not a mistake but a complex, beautiful creation with a purpose makes her confidently shine
4. PROGRESS
   Progress in her life makes her shine. Even though she may not achieve all her goals at the set date; a woman glows different when she sees herself making progress in any area of her life.. Be it her career, finances, relationship with God, motherhood, business, romantic relationship, property acquisition, studies. This is why it is important for a woman to give herself success stories
5. THE LOVE OF HER MAN
   A loved up woman is easy to tell, she can’t help but shine because her man is taking care of her heart. Her heart is at rest
6. A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
   A woman soaked in worship, spending time with her God glows. The presence of God attends to her spirit and her gentle spirit shows
7. SWEET LOVE MAKING
   Nothing like a good session of love making to make her soul smile. Her husband giving organs makes her feel so good she can’t help but glow
8. VALUE ADDING
   When a woman is adding value to the lives of others, she shines, she goes to bed with a smile knowing someone is smiling because of her. So lady, make sure each day you touch at least one soul without expecting anything in return

8 valuable lessons from the book “How to Become a People Magnet” by Marc Reklau
“How to Become a People Magnet” by Marc Reklau is a self-help book focused on improving social skills and becoming more likable and charismatic.

1. Practice Active Listening: One of the most important skills for building strong connections is listening actively. Be fully present in conversations, maintain eye contact, and genuinely engage with what the other person is saying. This fosters trust and shows that you value their thoughts and opinions.
2. Develop Empathy: Being able to understand and relate to others emotions is a valuable skill when it comes to building connections. Empathy allows you to put yourself in others shoes, leading to deeper connections and stronger relationships. Show genuine care and understanding for others experiences.
3. Be Authentic: Authenticity is essential in forming genuine connections. Embrace your true self and be genuine in your interactions. Avoid pretending to be someone youre not, as it can create a barrier between you and others. People are attracted to authenticity and sincerity.
4. Positive Mindset: Cultivate a positive mindset, as it influences how you approach social interactions. Maintain a positive attitude, exude positivity, and focus on the good in others. Positivity is contagious and can create a pleasant and welcoming atmosphere, making you more approachable.
5. Develop Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence involves recognizing and managing your emotions as well as understanding others emotions. Strengthen your emotional intelligence by being aware of your own feelings and reactions, and try to understand the emotions behind others actions. This allows for effective communication and deeper connections.
6. Show Appreciation: Expressing genuine appreciation and gratitude for others is crucial for building strong relationships. Acknowledge the strengths and contributions of those around you, and dont shy away from complimenting them or expressing gratitude. Showing appreciation makes others feel valued and strengthens your bond with them.
7. Practice Non-Verbal Communication: Non-verbal cues, such as body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice, play a significant role in communication. Pay attention to your non-verbal signals and try to align them with your words. Practice open body language, maintain good eye contact, and use a friendly tone to convey warmth and approachability.
8. Invest Time and Energy: Building meaningful connections requires investment. Dedicate time and energy to nurturing relationships with people who are important to you. Initiate conversations, make plans, and show up when needed. Genuine connections thrive on effort and mutual support.
   Applying these principles can help you develop strong interpersonal skills and become more influential and likable in various social settings.

7 Top highlights from “Everyman’s Battle”
by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker:

1. Every man struggles with sexual temptation.
   This is a normal part of being human. A person can have a stronger than normal sexual appetite and not be a sex addict.
   Addictive sex is done in isolation and devoid of relationship.
2. What is sexual purity?
   Sexual purity is a state when no sexual gratification comes from anyone or anything but your wife.
3. Sexual temptation is a spiritual battle.
   It is not just about physical urges. It is also about our minds and hearts.
   Our maleness brings us natural vulnerability to sexual sin.
   It will surprise some men that marriage doesn’t eliminate sexual impurity.
   The battle plan for winning this battle is by bouncing your eyes and starving your eyes from this things that could generate those impure thoughts.
4. Men should cherish their fountain
   Whether your wife is wide or narrow or lumpy or smooth, when you focus your full attention on “Your fountain” she’ll become ever more beautiful to your very eyes. Her weak points will become sexy because they are yours and yours alone.
5. God’s expectation
   Marriage may not satisfy very man’s sexual needs, but God still expects purity.
   Purity comes through self discipline and if as a man, you don’t get control before your wedding day, you can’t expect it to crop up after the honeymoon.
6. Who is a wife?
   A wife is someone who gave up her freedom for you, she relinquished her rights to seek happiness elsewhere. She exchanged this freedom for something she considered more valuable: your love and your word.
   Your wife risked much and traded much to marry you.
7. The truth
   As a man, there will be women who you will be attracted to and others you will attract other than your wife, it is expected of you not to have any right to romantic relationship with them as a man of honor.

I have exam on 27 of September 2023 kindly remember me in prayers everyone. Will share whole details about about it once am done.